The term tradwife has recently gained traction in the Indian context, and the Cambridge Dictionary just recognised the term, defining it as ‘a married woman, especially one who posts on social media, who stays at home doing cooking, cleaning, etc. and has children that she takes care of.’ ‘Tradwife’ is short for traditional wife. As a researcher who has been working on studying this phenomenon of Indian women choosing to perform household chores on social media, this does not come as a shock. As a part of my research, I have been tracking this phenomenon for my thesis over three platforms, namely YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook. The idea that we have been consuming content that pitches cooking for one’s partner, family members, doing household chores, and taking care of children is not new but surely does challenge a lot of feminist debates on reproductive labour and the private sphere.
Trad wives are not just women performing reproductive labour but also recording and visibilising this lifestyle on social media. Social media acts as an infrastructure that facilitates the monetisation of this labour, which complicates feminist debates about women having to bear the burden of performing reproductive labour that does not produce ‘value’ and is limited to the private sphere. With the advent of this phenomenon, the ‘private’ sphere is now made open for the ‘public’, blurring the public-private dichotomy that is so central to the feminist debates.
With the monetisation of ‘reproductive’ labour, it also holds the potential to convert it into ‘productive’ labour again, muddying assumptions that are so central to the camp of feminist political economy. Through this article, I attempt to understand the phenomenon and not necessarily critique it because the category of the ‘tradwife’ does not entirely apply in the Indian context and adopting this term would lead to an acultural (Taylor, 1999) analysis of the phenomenon unfolding in India.
Submission or strategy? Contrasting tradwife ideology with Indian food influencer entrepreneurship
Recent scholarship highlights the rise of the tradwife phenomenon in Euro-American contexts, particularly on platforms like TikTok, where cisgender women embrace and promote patriarchal gender norms under the banner of “traditional femininity” (Scott & Day, 2025). Tradwife influencers position themselves as stay-at-home wives and mothers who derive fulfilment through domesticity, submission to husbands, and rejection of feminist ideals. As Scott and Day (2025) show, the tradwife aesthetic is deeply intertwined with biblical references (Ephesians, Genesis, Proverbs) and a racialised nostalgia for white, Christian, heteronormative family structures. This content not only romanticises a return to mid-twentieth-century domestic ideals but also functions as a conduit for far-right, anti-feminist, and even white nationalist discourses, where women’s subservience is framed as both spiritual duty and cultural preservation.
Tradwife influencers position themselves as stay-at-home wives and mothers who derive fulfilment through domesticity, submission to husbands, and rejection of feminist ideals. Recent scholarship highlights the rise of the tradwife phenomenon in Euro-American contexts, particularly on platforms like TikTok, where cisgender women embrace and promote patriarchal gender norms under the banner of “traditional femininity”
By contrast, Indian women who monetise domesticity and care on digital platforms present a distinctly different narrative. Figures such as Kabita Singh (@Kabita’s Kitchen) or Sahini Banerjee (@Feashts) do not frame themselves as submissive wives or biblical homemakers, nor do they advocate a withdrawal from the marketplace. Instead, they explicitly position themselves as entrepreneurs, content creators, cultural archivists, and home cooks rather than chefs. Their labour of cooking, documenting recipes, and curating age-old food traditions is deployed as a business strategy that transforms undervalued household knowledge into an aspirational digital product. The emphasis is not on wifely subordination but on individual enterprise and the construction of a professional, individual brand.
Whereas tradwives cloak digital entrepreneurship in the language of religious subservience, many Indian influencers highlight transparency in their monetisation practices—renting studios, building aesthetic sets, and openly marketing their channels as businesses. They do not necessarily depend on their partners or promote being a subservient and dutiful wife. Instead, they pride themselves on acquiring skills and building a brand of their own, often without the help of their partners. In contrast to the Western tradwife phenomenon that has been popularised by Estee Williams and Hannah Neeleman (popularly known as the @ballerinafarm), many of these content creators also share videos dividing household labour with their partners.
For example, Shahini Banerjee is seen with her husband, Sunny, cooking meals for each other. We also see ‘shared diaries’ by @WowPooja showcasing her life with her partner, sharing household responsibilities. She is also seen performing household chores before and after her 9-5 ‘productive’ job, documenting how a woman’s job is never done. Therefore, the tradwife phenomenon of the West does not neatly fit the monetisation of household labour that is prevalent in the Indian context.
A good Christian wife versus a Sanskari Bahu: two sides of the same coin
Another significant divergence lies in the axes of religion and ideology. While Western tradwife influencers consistently invoke Christian scripture to naturalise women’s subservience (Scott and Day, 2025), Indian domestic influencers do not anchor their content in comparable religious frameworks. Rituals and festivals may appear, but largely as cultural heritage rather than as evidence of women’s divinely ordained duty to men. The Indian case, therefore, lacks the overt anti-feminist ideology that underpins the tradwife phenomenon but reframes this practice as ‘choice feminism’. Instead, women online mobilise domesticity as a form of aspirational labour (Duffy, 2015), presenting themselves as digital entrepreneurs who extract value from historically feminised and devalued labour.
The Indian context is not free of exclusionary dynamics. Just as the tradwife phenomenon is marked by racial and class privilege, Indian food and homemaking influencers are shaped by caste and class stratifications. The ability to rent studios, access high-end appliances, or curate minimalist, aestheticised kitchens is often limited to upper-caste, upper-class women.
However, the Indian context is not free of exclusionary dynamics. Just as the tradwife phenomenon is marked by racial and class privilege, Indian food and homemaking influencers are shaped by caste and class stratifications. The ability to rent studios, access high-end appliances, or curate minimalist, aestheticised kitchens is often limited to upper-caste, upper-class women. For example, Oman Gupta refers to herself as a “bania bahu”, showcasing her life as a “20-year-old married woman”. Being explicit about her caste, she claims, gets her a bigger reach in terms of her audience. She feeds off the critique she receives in her comments from women because that increases her viewer engagement, she told Scroll. Then we have creators like Japneet Sethi, who is by profession a makeup artist but is often seen making videos around the trope ‘a day in the life of a 22-year-old married woman‘. She also goes on to say that she is living a privileged life without focusing on her career, as she has ‘four to five maids at her home all the time‘. This renders invisible the everyday domesticity of working-class waged domestic workers, often belonging to lower castes, whose labour continues to be performed in private households or as waged domestic work, rarely celebrated as cultural capital. In this case, while Indian digital homemakers resist the tradwife script of subservience, they reproduce a different form of privilege that makes their entrepreneurial domesticity legible and aspirational primarily for middle- and upper-class audiences.
In short, while both the tradwife movement and Indian domestic influencers centre the home and domestic labour, their logics diverge. Tradwife content is ideologically orientated, promoting anti-feminist, religiously inflected subservience to men and reinscribing whiteness as cultural capital in the Western context. Indian domestic influencers, on the other hand, mobilise domesticity as a market-facing, entrepreneurial practice, aligning more with survival strategies in precarious economies than with religious traditionalism in many cases. Yet, both cases are structured by privilege—race and religion in the Western case, caste and class in the Indian—underscoring how domesticity on social media is never a neutral terrain but always embedded in broader hierarchies of power.
Digital nostalgia and conservative futures: Tradwives supporting broligarchs
The recent recognition of the term tradwife by the Cambridge Dictionary, alongside ‘broligarch’, reveals two sides of an emerging cultural landscape shaped by both digital performance and political conservatism. While tradwife refers to women who embrace and promote highly gendered domestic roles online — celebrating homemaking, nurturing, and submission as aspirational — broligarch captures the hyper-masculine, wealthy male influencer archetype. These terms are not neutral descriptions of internet trends; their institutional recognition signals how digitally mediated identities are being normalised and legitimised. Importantly, the tradwife phenomenon is more than a performance of household labour. It operates as a conservative push to return to the “good old days”, when women were primarily responsible for care, reproduction, and moral guidance, often at the expense of their autonomy in public and economic life. In contrast, the broligarch embodies the accumulation of power, capital, and entitlement, relying on the silent labour of women to sustain his authority. Together, they exemplify a gendered ecosystem of digital conservatism that reinscribes old hierarchies under the guise of modern lifestyle choices.
This cultural shift cannot be dismissed as “cringe content” but must be read against the backdrop of political economies and resurgent right-wing conservatism in both the West and India. In India, for instance, the state has amplified such currents by officially recognising digital creators through initiatives like the National Creators Day Awards. These gestures encourage young women to imagine the digital public sphere rather than workplaces or political arenas as their site of visibility and influence. Given the persistent lack of employment opportunities and the dangers of women’s participation in the physical public sphere, the internet becomes a safer, though still precarious, alternative. Yet this apparent empowerment sits uneasily alongside the masculinist cultures of the manosphere (Scott & Day, 2025), where the tradwife is positioned as the supportive counterpart to the broligarch. As Scott and Day (2025) argue in their work on the manosphere, this alignment is not accidental: it produces a mutually reinforcing cultural script where women’s care and submission are necessary conditions for the flourishing of male dominance. The recognition of such terms by mainstream institutions, therefore, reflects not just digital slang but a broader cultural endorsement of reactionary gender politics.
