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Another Domestic Violence Story; Yes, Dowry Is Still Rampant In India

Man attacked his wife with an axe, severing her larynx and leaving her voiceless, over dowry demands in a horrific case of domestic violence.

Posted by Srishti Malhotra and Madhura Chakraborty

“My daughter, Rajvati, had told me her husband and in-laws were harrassing her for dowry,” Chidilal Satnami recalls. “When she tried to reason with them, saying that I [Chidilal] will not be able to arrange for the money because of my disability, they reprimanded her and asked her to meet their demands by any means possible.”

Rajvati was married to Ramesh Choudhary in June 2015 in a village in Madhya Pradesh. It was difficult for Rajvati’s disabled, unemployed father to arrange for the marriage and dowry but he managed somehow. Soon after marriage Rajvati’ husband and in-laws started demanding more dowry to buy him a motorcycle. These demands, coupled with the husband’s assumptions of an extra-marital affair led to a violent, jealous fit of rage where he attacked his wife with an axe.

Rajvati sustained fractures and nerve damage and her voice box was completely severed. A police case was filed and Ramesh was arrested immediately. So grave were Rajvati’s injuries that she had to be rushed to the government hospital in Jabalpur 154 kilometers away. As Ramesh and his family refused to bear any of the expenses for her treatment, Rajvati’s family had no option but to get her treated at the government hospital despite lack of adequate infrastructure. Her in-laws refused to even visit her or give her any access to her infant son.

Rajvati’s story is unfortunately not exceptional. As of 2015 Madhya Pradesh registered the third highest number of domestic violence cases according to the National Crime Records Bureau data. Further, the data reveals that crimes against women has an appalling conviction rate at under 22%. The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act has been praised for its comprehensive understanding of the issue which reflects in the provisions of shelter, guaranteed right of residence and compensation for the survivor. And yet, implementation lags behind, as Rajvati’s case amply demonstrates.

Also read: Everything You Need To Know About The Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA), 2005

For instance, in Rajvati’s case, she was in the Jabalpur Hospital and Research Centre for almost a year. So long and slow is the legal process, that she is yet to receive any compensation. Her father had to fund her treatment by taking loans. Though her husband was imprisoned the day after the incident and continues to be in jail, the court hearing against him has still not begun. Although Rajvati is unable to speak, she has given a written statement affirming that her husband had demanded fifty thousand rupees from her parents to buy a motorcycle. He had threatened to kill her if she failed to give him the money.

Also read: A Story Of The Culture Of Domestic Violence

Not much has changed since the time this video was shot in September 2016. Though Rajvati has recently been released from the hospital and has returned to her home in Singoli village, she is unable to speak and has difficulty eating. She still has to go to Jabalpur for check ups twice a week. The Jabalpur Hospital authorities have told her that they are awaiting equipment that will enable them to operate on her larynx.  Her son will be turning one soon, but continues to live away from her, at her in-laws’ home. Nor is she financially or physically capable of caring for him at present.

Call To Action: Rajvati needs your help. Make a financial contribution that will help fund her treatment at a medical facility equipped to operate on her, and enable her to care for her child. It is time to take a strong stance against domestic violence. Women like Rajvati are doubly victimised – first by their violators and then by an apathetic system and society that makes the victim run around to get justice. Get in touch with us at if you think you can help her in her struggle to live with dignity and recover from this horrific ordeal. You can also contribute to a crowdfunded campaign to help Rajvati here.

Featured Image Credit: A still from the video

An earlier version of this article was published here

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