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10 Things Adolescent Girls Had To Say About Gender-Based Violence And Their Experience of Reporting Them

The survey is an attempt to capture recommendations of young girls in the hope that this perspective is built into policy and program design around girls’ safety.

Posted by Suparna Gupta and Manasa Ram Raj

Truths are tumbling out of all sorts of offices and organisations across the country through India’s #MeToo movement, a definite glimmer of hope that women will be heard. As the movement grows in strength, one can’t but hope it extends in breadth also – to include one of the most invisible and unheard groups: adolescent girls from marginalised groups. This survey is an attempt to capture recommendations of young girls in the hope that this perspective is built into policy and program design around girls’ safety.

Through this survey, Aangan asked 386 adolescent girls from low-income households (with an average annual family income of 48000 INR or 685 USD) about their experience growing up in informal settlements (bastis) of Khurda (Odisha), Patna (Bihar), semi-urban district Bokaro (Jharkhand) and rural district North 24 Parganas (Bengal). The aim was to understand their own experience with harassment, discrimination, isolation, exploitation and access to safety services.

1. Several Girls From My Community Are Missing Or Lost, But Usually They Just Run Away

India’s National Crime Records Bureau data reveals that among reports of missing children, the highest number of cases are about adolescent girls. About half the girls Aangan interviewed reinforced this and knew girls who were missing from their communities. They used the term ‘missing’ to describe girls who were lost, trafficked, kidnapped, sold or had simply disappeared overnight. 55% of girls said they knew of girls who were missing. But significantly higher than that – 89% of girls believe that running away from home is common in their neighborhood.

“My cousin is a teenager and she ran away recently. Within a few months she returned. We don’t know exactly what happened, but now her family is not allowing her to re-enroll in school, and she hardly ever leaves the house,” reports Saira (name changed), from North 24 Parganas, Bengal. Reasons for running away from home are varied, but many girls voice feelings of isolation and hopelessness in their homes and communities. One fifteen-year-old said, “I do not feel supported by my family.” while another said, “I have often considered running away. I imagine that anything is better than this place.

Recent data from the Indian Railways reveals that over the last three years, the numbers of runaway minor girls has almost doubled. The report clarifies that girls were neither lost nor kidnapped: they had in fact chosen to leave from home. This raises an important question: if adolescent girls are exercising agency to separate from protective family care, then perhaps it is important to understand more about the breakdown in protective systems available to them to understand why adolescent girls are leaving their homes in the first place?  What steps could policymakers, officials or families take to strengthen the protective environment so that adolescents have access to school, friends, leisure, support and opportunities – all of which play a large role in keeping girls safe in family care. Does this perspective also require some reorientation of policy and programs to strengthen preventative work with the group?

2. School Feels Safe, But Nobody Understands That Getting There Is Difficult And Dangerous

Most girls interviewed (82%) felt safe inside schools. This feeling was highest among schools in West Bengal and Odisha and lower in Bihar and Jharkhand. 12% of girls surveyed never attended school. The highest number of girls who were not enrolled in school was in Jharkhand at 24%. Most of these out-of-school teens were unable to articulate exactly why they were out of school.  However, some linked this to the fact that “they were grown up, of marriageable age,” immediately signaling that they were at risk of early marriage and unsafe at home, despite being in family care.

44% of school-going girls said their route to school was unsafe, referring to harassment.

44% of school-going girls said their route to school was unsafe, referring to harassment, sexual advances and attacks that they had experienced on the way to school. “While walking to school, we have to deal with harassment every day. But if we bring up such topics with our parents they might say it is our fault and stop us from going to school at all,” says Priya (name changed) from Patna.

3. I Need Support From My Family And Police To Keep Safe

Girls were asked if they could recognise risk and if so, could take steps to keep safe.   

  • 29% reported they would be unable to prevent harm and keep safe (the highest rate of those who would be able to recognise harm was in Bengal with 80% and the lowest was in Bihar at 14%).
  • 48% believed they would need support of their family to take action and 13% believed action would only be possible if the police were supportive.
  • 10% percent were confident that they would be able to to avert harm (the highest rates of confidence were in Odisha at 24% and Bengal at 22%).

For organisations working with adolescent girls, this is a reminder that safety planning work with girls is important and must be integrated into school curricula or community activities, but should probably not be limited to girls alone. Supporting families to find ways to support and respond could be equally crucial.

4. We Don’t Trust The Police

Girls shared that they would rarely approach police officials about a concern or a complaint. 71% girls said they do not feel confident to approach the police in case of harm. Those surveyed talked about how informal systems like panchayats or older people in the community were more likely to be helpful in case of danger, harm or harassment. Only 28% of girls across locations knew they could complain about harassment and what an FIR (First Information Report) was in the context of filing complaints. The reluctance to confide, complain and seek out police protection could be linked to the fact that only 3% of all girls surveyed believe that police would act in their best interest if approached, 74% believed they would not and 23% were unsure.

5. Our Families Do Not Encourage Us To Report To The Police

Girls’ lack of trust in police might also be linked to family experience and history with the police. 68% of girls revealed that (they believed?) their families currently would not consider reporting danger, or even reporting an actual incident of violence or harassment to the police. 12% of girls also believed that they would be stigmatised in their communities were they to approach police for help, or if community members believed they were “close to the police.” Girls believed this would impact community acceptance of their families.

71% girls said they do not feel confident to approach the police in case of harm.

“It is more important that community members support you than police. If there is trouble, it is friends, neighbors and relatives who ultimately help you. At such times the police would neither be in the picture nor support us anyway,” says a 15-year-old girl from Bihar.

15% believed that the police would not take the complaints from their families seriously because they belong to marginalised groups. In fact, 37% of girls voiced the fear that religious, tribal or caste group backgrounds would evoke a hostile and uncooperative response from police. “The police would never listen to outsiders like us – especially a Santhal girl like me” says Puja (name changed) from Khorda District in Odisha, who lives in a basti with a mixed group of schedule tribe residents (Santhal and Sahi families who have migrated from districts Mayurbhanj, Baripoda, Balasore).

Also read: How Is Sexual Violence Normalised In India?

This perspective points to the important work of addressing the trust deficit between police, families and communities. It also points to the fact that in re-aligning institutional arrangements between police and marginalised communities, these group’s historical relationship with authorities must be addressed rather than ignored.

6. Community Members Usually Do Not Cooperate Or Work With The Police.

When asked whether women and children had taken proactive steps to work with police or whether police have reached out, most said that police and community members had rarely coordinated efforts. Perhaps mistrust is mutual between police and families. 95% of girls believe their families would not assist or support police efforts to make communities safer for women and children. Although they might make efforts independently, they believed that if the police approached their families, community members would probably not cooperate or accommodate questions and requests.

7. I Believe Police And Women Or Children Do Not Coordinate Efforts Because…

Whilst 35% girls voiced that Police “don’t care about people like us”, 38% feel scared and intimidated by them. Perhaps this leads to uncoordinated efforts between police and women. 17% girls revealed that their parents do not encourage them to talk to the police, in fact parents worry that if their children approach police for help, they will harm them instead. Resultantly, these families prefer if the girls do not talk about their issues outside their home. 10% girls also suggested that their families prefer women and children to stay in and care of their homes clearly indicating gender stereotype roles are highly prevalent with these communities.

8. Women Police Are Around In My Community

Across all communities, adolescent girls shared that women police officers were seen around. 70% of adolescents reported to have seen them fairly regularly. This was particularly high in Bengal where 98% of girls reported seeing women police at work, and 89% reported to have seen them in Odisha. This coincided with areas where girls reported that they felt more confident to register a complaint with the police. In Bengal it was at 22% and in Odisha at 63%.  It was different in Jharkhand where only 29% had seen police and about 13% would consider approaching police for a complaint. In Bihar, 64% had seen women police and 15% considered reporting.

9. A Word Of Advice From Adolescents To Police

When asked what advice the girls would like to share with police, 32% of them felt that police need to be more sensitive to their issues and be more approachable. 15% girls felt that police should help girls stay in school to avoid child marriage and 21% girls voiced that police should pay more attention to women and girls’ issues; then police, women and children would be able to work effectively together in eradication child harm. Girls also believe that improving their sanitary conditions and not asking for money (bribes) from poor families when they approach for help could bring the community closer to the police.

10. If I Were The Chief Minister The First Steps I Would Take For Women’s And Girls’ Safety Would Be To…

  • Improve education and job opportunities for young women: 20%
  • Improve the living conditions in the bastis, especially access to toilets: 10%
  • Improve police and order to ensure women’s and girls safety: 25%
  • Take actions against officials who take money from the poor: 11%
  • Ban alcohol: 5%

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Conversations with adolescent girls are a reminder that safety measures demand a multiagency response to cover a spectrum of safety measures in multiple locations – roads, schools, homes, police stations, homes, railway stations, and public toilets to name a few. Such comprehensive solutions will only be possible when adolescent safety work is taken off the sidelines and child voices are placed at the center of discussion.

Suparna Gupta is the founder of Aangan, a non profit that works on child safety in vulnerable districts which are known to have a high incidence of child harm or exploitation – like child marriage, child labor or trafficking, and operates districts across Uttar Pradesh, Rajasthan, Bihar, Bengal, Odisha, Maharashtra and Jharkhand. In the past, Gupta started a program to monitor conditions and care for child harm survivors in government-funded shelter/rescue homes, This was India’s first standards of care assessment system, which was introduced by state authorities in six hundred rescue/shelter homes across the country. Gupta also co-authored reports Changing Spaces and A Real Opportunity for Change about institutionalised children and ground level staff. In 2014, she designed a child harm prevention program for districts where the incidence of child harm is high. Suparna is an Ashoka fellow and an Edward S Mason fellow from Harvard Kennedy School. You can follow her on Twitter.

Manasa is an alumna of Christ University, Bangalore. Currently, she is based out of Mumbai working with Aangan, a child protection NGO. Manasa is also associated with the Red Elephant Foundation focusing on story-telling and advocacy for gender equality and peacebuilding. As a researcher in law and a helpless bystander of violence against women and children, she wishes to focus her line of work in understanding the complexity around gender spewed violence. You can follow her on Twitter.

Interviewers: Moumi Sengupta, Laxmi Priya Jena, Pushpalata Shah

The data was collected between June to August 2018 using a structured questionnaire, administered through face to face interviews with the respondents.

Featured Image Source: Women’s E-News


  1. Ram Raj says:

    The article “10 Things Adolescent Girls Had To Say About Gender-Based Violence And Their Experience of Reporting Them” raises many relevant points on how there needs to be a total mindset change in society. Gender biases can be removed only if people at home don’t have such biases… a total societal change is urgently needed to make India safe and inclusive for all.

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