Vidhi R Chandra is a blogger and hopeless portmanteau-er. You will find me practicing fake acceptance speeches for Pulitzer, Grammy, Oscars all at once almost daily and when I’m not frightening people with my strange ways, I’m most likely discussing shoes, books, movies, politics, food or women’s issues.
While the words and language used may vary, the goal of gaslighting is to undermine the target by portraying her as unreasonable, unreliable and inherently defective in mind as well as character/morality.
Now, as I fight a daily battle in the war against arranged marriage, I have realised that my parents’ standards for a husband for me are so much worse than mine. As a method of finding a life partner, I believe matrimonial sites are the cesspit of humanity.